“Stirring the oatmeal is a humble act – not exciting or thrilling. But it symbolizes a relatedness that brings love down to earth…Love is content to do many things that the ego is bored with. Love is willing to work with the other person’s moods and unreasonableness. Love is willing to fix breakfast and balance the check book. Love is willing to do this oatmeal things because it is related to a person, not a projection.” – Robert A. Johnson